Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Trinidad # 3 "Nicing" Up De Place





If you know anything about Trinidad culture, you will know that Christmas is the time when everyone makes that extra effort to make their homes more beautiful and/or replace existing furniture and appliances with brand new ones (thanks to all the no deposit/take it home for 3 mths credit. etc. available) This is something that most people do and in just the space of a month before and after Christmas, homes are completely transformed.

When I got home, our house was being repainted to match all the blooming flowers in the front yard and I got right into the swing of things. I am not really one for DIY but I do enjoy painting with some sing-along music to keep me distracted. We did this for the first three days I was there and it was well worth it.

Here I am all messed up with paint as well as the front of the house with all the plants. (Not that I had anything to do with the beautiful plants)

Monday, January 28, 2008

Trinidad # 2 Family History: Lost Forever?



One of the things I was hoping to accomplish while in Trinidad was to visit some relatives and try to get some information about my grandparents and great grandparents. This proved to be much more difficult than anticipated.

I visited my father's two sisters, the only ones left of his many siblings and was very disappointed with their responses. They could not give me any names of either of their grandparents and I could not help but think they could not be bothered by what is past.

I was certain at least one of them would be able to give me something to work on but I got nothing, absolutely nothing. I left their homes feeling like the day was a complete and all the family's history was lost forever. The sad part is that it is lost. If they don't want to talk about it or don't remember, then it is lost for sure and there is nothing I can do about it.

On my mother's side, there is one of her mother's sister still alive but at 75, there was little she could tell. Turns out most of the older Indians in Trinidad used only one name and children never used the proper names of their parents and grandparents. This resulted in another dead end with the other side of the family long forgotten. So much for that.

The picture is of my father's youngest sister and another of his older sister.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Trinidad # 1






Before leaving for Trinidad on Dec 19th I was way too busy with finals ans other school activities to really fell the excitement of going home but by the time I got there and stepped out of the airport, I was ready for five weeks in the sun.

I was met by my mother and sister Molly as well as my friend rakesh and his wife Anjanie and their adorable daughter Adrianna. Turns out that Adrianna's b-day is they same as mine so from my 39th, we celebrate together.

My day was spent at home eating some much needed home cooked curry and then we were off to the mall to hang out and relax.

Here are some pics from that first day. You can see all the persons I mentioned as we hung out at home and at the mall.

Trinidad to New York

After five weeks in Trinidad and Tobago I was not prepared for the cold of the NY Winter. My first day here made me want to stay in bed all wrapped up in blankets but I had to face reality and eventually leave the house.
Now that life is back to normal, that is, no warm days in the sun on the beach, I have to face my fourth semester of college as well as all the topics I want to blog about and also catching up with friends that I seem to have lost touch with in the past few weeks.
So, get ready, look out for regular updates and tons of photos from my trip back home where I spent my first Christmas in Trinidad in four years.